Thereâ€™s a saying that goes a little something like this. One of the most dangerous times in a man (or womanâ€™s) life is when he has just achieved a worthwhile goal. After achieving that goal, he should then immediately replace it with another worthwhile goal. Otherwise, heâ€™ll start drifting with no direction and the attitude of â€śI did it. Now what?â€ť starts to form and he becomes like a ship lost at sea.
Of course there should be a time to relax and enjoy the fruits of your victory, but not for too long. Itâ€™s hard to get out of bed when you tell yourself youâ€™ll lie down for just a couple of minutes isnâ€™t it? Iâ€™ve done that too and lo and behold, three hours fly by. Once you stay in a place long enough, it gets very comfortable and then it requires more energy to get out of that place and therein lies the very well disguised and placed trap of complacency.
If you find that the days are becoming more and more alike, youâ€™re probably not alone. Routine is inevitable and people gravitate toward it like moths to the flame and once you settle down into the daily routine of things, you end up in a cycle that has potential negative side effects, especially in the world we live in today.
Change is almost a given nowadays. There is no such thing as job security, the economy is unpredictable, anything can happen at any given time, but the one thing that remains constant is that those who deal with change on a regular basis as opposed to those who donâ€™t, will most likely be able to deal with that change more effectively. Very obvious fact, I know, but it just goes to show that you canâ€™t deal with change as effectively if youâ€™re complacent because there is no change to deal with when youâ€™re in that state.
Complacency tends to nip any potential for change in the bud and as a result, when change occurs, itâ€™s a big shock to your system. Furthermore, complacency tends to foster complacent activities, such as watching TV or playing video games when that time can be spent growing, whether it be from reading books, listening to tapes, or exercising. The opportunity costs are great when complacency enters our lives because itâ€™s the easy way out. Itâ€™s the path by default.
I say ABG. ABG â€“ always be growing. There is SO much out there to learn and experience. We live in a day and age where we literally have information at our fingertips. We have the means to travel, to try new things, and yet, itâ€™s as if a curtain has been pulled over our eyes and we only view life through the narrow view that complacency tends to give us.
If you become complacent, itâ€™s like stashing your money under the mattress only to have inflation eat it away. Put your money where it yields some sort of interest so it at least matches the rate of inflation or invest it in a vehicle for greater returns. Remember, YOU, you are the greatest investment vehicle in the world. No stock, bond, or mutual fund can compare. Invest in yourself. If youâ€™re complacent, you accrue no interest. There is no return. In fact, your overall value may decline.
How might your value decline? For example, when youâ€™re complacent, you tend to not be aware of the things that are going on around you and the opportunities that are right in front of your eyes as well. Some people might go to their jobs day after day without realizing that their job may be outsourced in the near future. If you see your career being outsourced, perhaps it would be wise one day to sit down and draft a contingency plan or ensure that your job does NOT get outsourced. Itâ€™s easy to keep on doing the things youâ€™re doing but by doing so, you may miss out on signs that are right in front of you and when change comes, it tends to knock the socks off of you.
Complacency encourages the absolute minimum. Why grow when things are going good? Why push the envelope when I donâ€™t have to? Why bring elements in that might upset the balance? If you do the absolute minimum and your job is on the chopping block, guess what? More likely then not, youâ€™re out of a job. Did you take the time to learn new skills? Make new contacts? Suggest new improvements? Doing the bare minimum wonâ€™t help in getting another job because youâ€™re on the same level as the time you applied for your old one.
Another side effect of complacency is that you become less likely to take risks. Whoâ€™s more likely to take risks? The one whoâ€™s complacent or the one trying to grow in every which way? Itâ€™s because youâ€™ve stood in one place for so long that youâ€™re afraid to take a step forward. You end up fearing change. And in a society where change is rampant, adapting to it is a crucial element to survival.
Always have a goal that you want to achieve in front of the goal youâ€™re trying to achieve now because when you do achieve your current goal, which you WILL, youâ€™ll know you have something to shoot for afterwards. Iâ€™ve been in that state before where Iâ€™ve achieved a worthwhile goal and you would think that it feels great and it does. It really does. But then an eerie calm begins to settle. You ask yourself â€“ â€śThatâ€™s it? Thatâ€™s all there is? and you tend to go down paths you donâ€™t want to. There’s no “kick”. You get that drifting feeling again, but if you know you have another goal you want to tackle, you can enjoy the fruits of your labor that much more because you know thereâ€™s something else to go after now.
Snap out of the default path to complacency. Itâ€™s easy to be average. Itâ€™s easy to settle. Read a new book. Talk to a different person. Think of a new great idea. Donâ€™t stagnate. Expand your knowledge. Go the extra mile. If youâ€™ve been thinking for too long that things are just right, thatâ€™s probably a good sign to start growing out of your comfort zone. Donâ€™t settle for complacency. ABG.
Your new world awaits.